you need to rekindle that certain connections and spark within your husband.

Well, I guess, you yourself could answer that. Why you are no longer at the mood to have intimacy with your husband..I guess, you know already the reason..but failed not to accept.

try to make ammends. go for a date outside with your husband. just do something new, fun and exciting.

the feeling of being preoccupied as a mother and wife can be the reasons why you don't want to have intimate moments with your husband anymore.

i think this is what they call the lost of libido.

you can make some small private pleasures like going to a movie house with your husband.

try giggling around or reconnect with your husband. make some efforts so you won't lose that special thing.

self-esteem plays a big role. somehow mothers like us thinks about how we look and get very much concern. lighten up a bit!

just enjoy a night alone with your husband when your kids are already asleep.

yeah it could be some medication too,if u r on any, and also when there is no drive from ur partner,it could make it worse. i think u should get help from a therapist,they should be able to help get the cause and give u things to do. i wish the best!