Excited about my IVF...should I not get my hopes up
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I just can't wait but I'm scared that I'm getting my hopes up. I asked the nurse today what their statistics were for getting pregnant the first IVF. She told me that they just got theirs back today and it was 69%. I know this doesn't mean that I will get pregnant the first IVF but I am getting my hopes up. Should I not get my hopes up? They wait for 5 day blast instead of 3. She said they have had good results with that.
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Best of luck, I think it's great to be excited and realistic at the same time. Its a hard balance to keep, I had good luck with day 5 as well!
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While those stats seem awfully high, there's no reason not to be optimistic. Chances of conception are still 30-40%, so why not hope for the best? And good luck!
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I think it is great to be excited, I am also very excited. It is my first time trying, I am 40 years and my husband is 47 years. We have been trying for three years and finally started the process. I will start my injections next week and I only have room for positive thoughts. Good luck!
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I've only done IUI but here's how I handled it: I was excited and I let myself be with the knowledge that I was excited to be doing something that had some hope of success. I was excited because I had hope. I kept my hope realistic in that I knew it may not work the first or second time around. It helped me get through that and even kept me from feeling down.
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Just always have a positive result. And have faith always in god that you will be given the desires of your heart and that is to get pregnant and have a baby of your own.
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It is nice to have hope and it should be coupled with prayer. There's nothing impossible with God.
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Always have a positive attitude! it will also come out good followed by proper determination and good attitude.
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Yeah, it's good that you get your hopes up because you are doing it not just for yourself, but for your husband as well. Having such kind of infertility treatment is not a joke and it's so very much expensive..but just be positive because it will really gives you a positive result coz if you think negatively from the very beginning, better not to continue it..because you already set your mind into a negative result.
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Just follow on the will of God..if it's meant to be, it's always meant to be..I guess, you know what I mean.
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You have a good character there Lisette and I admire you for being so positive. I wish you goodluck and same to you Bryony. :)
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It's always good to get your hopes up..because it's really what you want and you are determined to do it..so, Go! Be positive always..
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